remember one episode in sex 'n city? The lawyer girl, (forgot her name already!)said, why all you three very intelligent, successful and absolutely gorgeous women are so obessed with such jerks. Everything we talked about is about them, everything we think about is about them, everything we do is about them! Where is our life! I keep thinking, she is so right. So helpless right...
On the other hand...All it means, we met the wrong guy. The wrong guy. On certain level, they did one thing right by not choosing us. Regardless how hurtful the methods they used, which is just a lack of maturity, they made the right decision. Nobody's fault. When a relationship does not bring you or anyone any happiness, it is just flatly wrong. People don't walk away from happiness... It is just we can't get over ourselves.......which is another form of narcissism, I guess....
couldn't disagree more. remember in the same episode, the lawyer girl, maranda, after making the comments and judgment on her friends, ran into the guy she couldn't get over with before and she still ran away. so she went back and apologized to her girl friends. it's so easy to judge other people when you are never in it or no longer in it. 站着说话不腰疼。 what i've learned: u r not him/her, so don't judge. be nice to other people.
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谁不是呢。大家都是烂污泥。
我怎么老觉得，看着多幸福的人，要么是装的，要么是呆的，要么是不是不报时候未到。
可是我怎么觉得只有我是牛粪，别人都是鲜花呢？反正这么想，才能安心。
报不报的，我是不指望了。
remember one episode in sex 'n city? The lawyer girl, (forgot her name already!)said, why all you three very intelligent, successful and absolutely gorgeous women are so obessed with such jerks. Everything we talked about is about them, everything we think about is about them, everything we do is about them! Where is our life!
I keep thinking, she is so right. So helpless right...
On the other hand...All it means, we met the wrong guy. The wrong guy. On certain level, they did one thing right by not choosing us. Regardless how hurtful the methods they used, which is just a lack of maturity, they made the right decision. Nobody's fault. When a relationship does not bring you or anyone any happiness, it is just flatly wrong. People don't walk away from happiness...
It is just we can't get over ourselves.......which is another form of narcissism, I guess....
http://lome.blogcn.com/diary,23829643.shtml
Exactly,completely agree! Allowing yourself not to get over sb is a type of narcissism.
couldn't disagree more.
remember in the same episode, the lawyer girl, maranda, after making the comments and judgment on her friends, ran into the guy she couldn't get over with before and she still ran away. so she went back and apologized to her girl friends.
it's so easy to judge other people when you are never in it or no longer in it. 站着说话不腰疼。
what i've learned: u r not him/her, so don't judge. be nice to other people.
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